“Lying breaks a relationship, and we didn't want our relationships with our children broken. And lying dishonors the person being lied to.

In both instances, the relationship is in jeopardy.

We taught our kids that when you can't believe what you hear from another person, everything is off balance. The relationship is damaged.

• How can I trust you this time if you lied last time?

• How can I take your word for it if you don't always stick to your word?

We could correct bad behavior. We could handle disrespect. But lying? There are no relational work-arounds for that. Lying signals an end to the relationship. It represents an impasse. Relationally speaking, it is the worst thing you can do.” - Sandra Stanley, Page 71-72