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The Gift of Violence: Practical Knowledge for Surviving and Thriving in a Dangerous World Kindle Edition

4.4 out of 5 stars 126 ratings

In today's modern world, we are largely isolated from the kind of savagery our ancestors faced on a daily basis. Although violence was as natural to our evolutionary development as sex and food, it has become foreign to most of us: at once demonized and glamorized, but almost always deeply misunderstood. Our hard-earned and hard-wired instincts—our evolved and trained ability to survive and overcome violent encounters—have been compromised. Yet, as even a cursory look at news headlines or a police blotter will reveal, the threat of violent crime is ever-present, and those we've entrusted to protect us cannot always be relied upon. The Gift of Violence tells the story of this vulnerability and provides the average person with all the knowledge they need to reduce the likelihood of becoming a victim of violence and to increase their chances of surviving a violent encounter. Based both on the author's decades of experience teaching everyday people how to defend themselves and on a rational approach to the scientific data, The Gift of Violence offers clear, easy-to-remember lessons for people of all ages and abilities. It is designed to empower those who've been affected by violence or are concerned that they or their loved ones could be—in short, it was written to help good people become more dangerous to bad people. Every reader will be armed with the necessary knowledge to harness the power of violence for him- or herself—and, in the process, to be not just smarter and stronger but also safer.

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“Violence as a ‘gift’? Sounds topsy-turvy—and yet Matt Thornton presents his contrarian take at a moment when society itself has gone topsy-turvy. Writing amid a shocking uptick in violent crime and anarchic calls to defund the police, Thornton lays out a proactive regimen for negotiating a world that increasingly feels like ‘every man for himself.’ Or too often, sadly, every woman. This is not just some warmed-over martial-arts primer; it is a seamless mindset with anthropological and sociological underpinnings. And if anyone is qualified to write such a book it’s Thornton, as even a glance at his resume confirms. Consider this a survival textbook for a troubling new era in American life.” —Steve SalernoNew York Times best-selling author of Sham

“For many years Matt Thornton has been one of the most passionate ambassadors of the martial art of Jiu-Jitsu. His new book, The Gift of Violence, examines violence in the twenty-first century. Matt encourages his readers to apply lessons he has learned in Jiu-Jitsu to every aspect of their lives. Above all, The Gift of Violence makes it clear that Jiu-Jitsu is not just a sport; it is also a philosophy that makes one strong enough to forgive, and when necessary, confident enough to fight.” —Rickson Gracie, Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu and Mixed Martial Arts legend

“There is an evolutionary logic to violence that makes it part of human nature. The sooner we understand this fact the better we will be at knowing when and where to apply violence in the most moral and practical manner, both politically and personally. To the latter end, this may be one of the most important books ever written on self-improvement, inasmuch as the lessons imparted within will make you stronger, smarter, and safer. Read it and grow.” —Michael Shermer, founder and publisher of Skeptic Magazine

“Our immediate instinct may be to turn away from violence—to ignore it even, but as Matt Thornton’s book powerfully illustrates, it’s only through fully understanding violence as an essential part of our society and psyche that we can ensure that its appearance in our own lives is minimized. Thornton’s book is an important encyclopedic and philosophical record of our relationship with violence, asking us to consider why it’s important to recognize its early signs, how it can be used effectively as a deterrent, how it can be controlled within us and others, and why we need it at all. . . . At the wrong time and with the wrong intention, violence is destructive and cruel. Given the correct conditions though, it becomes a moral imperative.” —Katherine Brodsky, journalist

“Matt Thornton's book is something surprisingly rare: a serious and empirical examination of violence, and more broadly of human nature and particularly male human nature. A remarkable number of smart people today, as me sainted mother once put it, ‘feel guilty about the fact people are a predator species.’ That is, they begin with the starting premise that our nature is flawed, there is something wrong with biological reality, and we ‘should’ almost all be very different creatures from who we are. Thornton, a martial arts master and skilled writer, avoids this fundamental error. In an enjoyable 400-pager divided into five distinct sections, he discusses the actual biological and cultural roots of violence, the ‘folly’ of both pacifism and bluff machismo, the strategic behavior of predators human and otherwise, and the best empirical techniques for avoiding having to suffer or deal our harm. The book is, if you will, a hit.” —Wilfred Reilly, associate professor at Kentucky State University and the author of Hate Crime Hoax and Taboo

About the Author

Matt Thornton has been teaching functional martial arts for more than thirty years and holds a 5th degree black belt in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu. His organization, Straight Blast Gym, has more than seventy locations worldwide and has produced champion MMA fighters as well as world-class self-defense and law enforcement instructors. He lives with his wife Salome and their five children in Portland, Oregon.

Robb Wolf is a biochemist and author of The Paleo Solution and Wired to Eat.

Peter Boghossian is a philosopher and coauthor of How to Have Impossible Conversations.

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  • ASIN ‏ : ‎ B0BQRWJKKL
  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Pitchstone Publishing
  • Accessibility ‏ : ‎ Learn more
  • Publication date ‏ : ‎ April 11, 2023
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • File size ‏ : ‎ 1.9 MB
  • Screen Reader ‏ : ‎ Supported
  • Enhanced typesetting ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • X-Ray ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Word Wise ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Print length ‏ : ‎ 467 pages
  • ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-1634312318
  • Page Flip ‏ : ‎ Enabled
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  • Reviewed in the United States on November 2, 2023
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    Being a martial arts enthusiast, I expected the gift of violence to be very different from what it was. While it set up with the subject matter I assumed it would be, we took a left turn to societal problems with crime, fatherlesness, and a unique side of self defense.

    The turn was a welcome one. Thornton provides a source for every fact he pulls and weaves them together in a way that makes the books conclusion payoff worth the entire read.

    Even if you aren’t a fan of martial arts, you can get something from this book to change how you view the world.
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  • Reviewed in the United States on May 1, 2023
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    I thoroughly appreciate this book. For years I pursued traditional martial arts searching for the one true one. In whatever the system, it seemed to me the successful fighters were not using the kata or the patterns or the techniques in which we were drilled — loved the workout and the time spent absorbing them, but few were practical in a match. Somehow until now I never bumped up against Thornton or the Gracie JJ. This book answers quite a few questions for me, longtime puzzles of physicality, but also mental and philosophical challenges with which a serious student might come to grapple. Highly recommend. Super flow. Terrific footnotes.
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  • Reviewed in the United States on September 6, 2023
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    I don’t have time to write a long enough review to do Matt Thornton’s work justice. As the founder of Straight Blast Gym, Matt’s writings about functional martial arts and “Aliveness” have been critical to my thinking on the subject. Matt expands on his ideas with detailed statistics, relevant anecdotes, and important details. He is vulnerable and honest about where he falls short, increasing his credibility. Anyone interested in martial arts or keeping yourself and loved ones safe in a dangerous world should read it.
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  • Reviewed in the United States on May 23, 2024
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    A treasure trove of insight and well articulated wisdom on a topic far too many get wrong. By putting data before ideology Matt gives sound advice on how to prepare, both mentally and physically, to the threat of violence.
  • Reviewed in the United States on October 7, 2023
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    I didn't know what to expect going into this book and was extremely pleasantly surprised. Matt Thornton gives very practical and sensible advice. I came away with lots and lots of notes. This is my favorite book on the topic of self-defense by far!
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  • Reviewed in the United States on August 24, 2023
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    Not just for the martial art mind, this book is for everyone. Especially in this day and age this book has something for everyone. It is thoughtful, realistic and so well written. I have gotten a copy for myself so far but will be buying copies for both my boys.
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  • Reviewed in the United States on August 25, 2023
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    If the book ignored philosophy, or at least the unnuanced kind of philosophical ideas proposed, it would be great. But I grew weary of having to be lectured by a positivist every chapter and ultimately returned the book knowing that more very self-assured philosophical sermons by Boghossian were on their way. That said, whenever the book got to Thornton and his takes on violence--how to predict it, and how to avoid it--I loved it.
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  • Reviewed in the United States on August 2, 2023
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    Thornton does an amazing job of discussing effective self defense, security, and crime statistics. This book surpasses “The Gift of Fear” and contains many of the key points from “The Better Angels of Our Nature”

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    5.0 out of 5 stars Sehr lesenswert!
    Reviewed in Germany on January 4, 2024
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    THE GIFT OF VIOLENCE von Matt Thornton deckt inhaltlich ein breites Feld ab, aber im Kern geht es um das Überleben der Gefahren, die von Menschen ausgehen – sprich um Gewalt, effektive Vorbereitung und praxisbezogene Selbstverteidigung, um dieser Gewalt zu begegnen. Nicht nur im Namen hat THE GIFT OF VIOLENCE einen Bezug zum bahnbrechenden „The Gift Of Fear“ von Gavin de Becker (auf welches Thornton auch immer wieder und unter Benennung des Werkes Bezug nimmt), auch inhaltlich findet sich eine deutliche Schnittmenge der behandelten Themen. Anders als de Becker widmet sich Thornton dem Thema allerdings mehr (aber keineswegs ausschließlich) aus einem Martial Arts Aspekt, was hinsichtlich seiner Vita nicht verwundern muss.

    Thornton geht, gerade in der ersten Hälfte des Buches, viel auf psychologische und kriminologische Aspekte ein, und arbeitet hier klar heraus, welche Gefahren in der Realität tatsächlich mit signifikanter Wahrscheinlichkeit eintreten können… und die Realität unterscheidet sich deutlich von der subjektiven Wahrnehmung vieler Menschen.

    Mir gefällt dieser Ansatz ausgezeichnet: jegliche Strategie zum Selbstschutz kann nur effektiv sein, wenn sie zunächst einmal real bestehende Gefahren analysiert und adressiert. Es bringt relativ wenig, sich mental (und meinetwegen auch physisch) auf unwahrscheinliche Szenarien vorzubereiten und dabei die wirklich plausiblen Bedrohungen zu ignorieren… das ist ähnlich abstrus, wie wenn im Meer schwimmende Personen sich primär auf (in der Realität, anders als in Hollywood, äußerst seltene) Hai-Angriffe vorbereiten würden und viel realistischere Gefahren wie beispielsweise Ertrinken oder Strömungen ignorieren.

    Thornton widmet sich außerdem Techniken, mit denen man potentielle, von Menschen ausgehende Gefahren, sei es auf der Straße oder im persönlichen Umfeld, erkennen und vermeiden kann – wobei er auch gut fundiert über die Gründe schreibt, aus denen Menschen überhaupt zu gewalttätigem Verhalten neigen. Auch hier mag mancher Leser erstaunt sein, und dieses Wissen um die Gründe für Gewalt ist ebenfalls wichtig, wenn man eine gute Strategie für den Umgang mit den sich ergebenen Gefahren entwickeln möchte.

    Neben der Analyse der möglichen Gefahren geht Thornton auch viel auf realistische Selbstverteidigung ein. Wie zu erwarten vertritt er als langjähriger Lehrer im Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu (BJJ) die Philosophie dieses Systems. Thornton differenziert allerdings prinzipiell nicht zwischen BJJ und allen anderen Systemen, sondern primär zwischen den Trainingsmethoden – und empfiehlt klar, dass ein System, welches zur Selbstverteidigung in der Realität wirklich nutzen soll, realistisches Training mit Sparring gegen einen aktiv handelnden, nicht kooperierenden Partner beinhalten muss. Dieses Systeme sind für ihn beispielsweise Boxen, Muay Thai, BJJ, Judo, Ringen… eben alles, was man auch im praktischen Sparring übt.

    Ich halte Thorntons Ansatz für völlig richtig: reines Training mit der Luft oder einem kooperierenden Partner ist schön und gut, aber für den Ernstfall meiner Ansicht nach schlichtweg nicht genug… zumindest nicht für durchschnittlich begabte Menschen, die keine Ausnahmetalente sind.

    Es ist gerade die Dynamik eines Kampfes und die Anwendung der Techniken unter Stress gegen einen widerstehenden Gegner, die man im Sparring verinnerlicht, und ohne dieses praxisbezogene, „auf die harte Tour“ erworbene Wissen, ist man meiner Meinung nach auch als technisch hochqualifizierter Kampfkünstler einem simpel gestricktem Schläger haushoch unterlegen. Letzterer hat vielleicht nur ein sehr begrenztes Repertoire an Techniken und führt diese wahrscheinlich auch noch unsauber aus, aber er hat diese "Technikern" schon mal in der Praxis angewendet und ist halt viel vertrauter mit dem Stress und dem Chaos eines Kampfes... er hat insofern „realistisch trainiert". Die Realität zeigt leider immer wieder, dass körperlich und technisch unterlegene Gegner versierten Kampfkünstler ohne grösseren Aufwand schwer zusetzen können - vermutlich, weil Letztere in manchen Systemen auch nach Jahren des Trainings nie (oder allenfalls kaum) realistisch mit einem Partner gesparrt haben. Sich nur rein theoretisch auf die Praxis vorzubereiten (und viel mehr als Theorie ist reines Training mit der Luft häufig nicht) ist nie eine gute Idee, und in der Selbstverteidigung ist es besonders gefährlich.

    Allerdings sei bemerkt: auch wenn man sich Thorntons Schlussfolgerung zu realistischen Selbstverteidigungs-Training nicht anschließen möchte ist THE GIFT OF VIOLENCE sehr lesenswert, und es beinhaltet viele Denkanstöße für alle Leser, die sich mit dem gesamten Themenkomplex „Gewalt“ auseinandersetzen wollen.

    Alles in allem: Thorntons THE GIFT OF VIOLENCE ist ein sehr lesenswertes, gut geschriebenes Buch mit hochinteressanten Schlussfolgerungen.

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    5.0 out of 5 stars Insightful but a bit long
    Reviewed in Canada on May 23, 2024
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    This is a fantastic read by someone who is clearly an expert on the topic of martial arts and human violence. Although I thoroughly enjoyed this, it could easily be a 300 page book. Some of the points are needlessly reiterated multiple times. A little too much filler yet it remains a great book that I would not hesitate to recommend to anyone.
  • Jack Burton - Pork Chop Express
    5.0 out of 5 stars Matt Thornton is one of the best martial arts thinkers of this century
    Reviewed in Australia on July 30, 2023
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    I’ve been following his work for over 20 years and as expected his long awaited book is nothing short of astounding, useful, informative and a captivating read.

    Highly recommended for parents, martial artists, Law enforcement etc.

    My only complaint is…I wish he would hurry up with his next book

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